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Being Owned, Collars, Tattoo’s, And All The Fun Stuff. (Basic Blog #30)
Originally Published December 10th, 2021 on IcyQueenO.com. IcyQueenO.com is Goddess's new home. This site will not be updated as...
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No, Goddess Will Not “Ruin” you. (Basic Blog #27)
Ugh. Nothing more irritating, not to mention more of a turn off than a random ass sub who slides into My inbox with one of the most basic...
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Fun with Contracts (Basic Blog #24)
The elusive contract, the thing that can crank a D/s relationship up another level or 5. Contracts can be a fun tool too to start your...
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Findom Done Wrong. (Part 2 of ???.)
Been editing this blog for a few days, like too many days, findom is a complex subject, so edits may continue. Also a part 3 is probably...
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When Goddess's Tolerance Runs Out. Failing as a sub. (Basic Blog #23.)
Goddess can be very tolerant when training subs, but it comes to a point where that tolerance wears out. There are always bumps in the...
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How To Obtain Goddess's Attention And Keep It.
Ahhh initial contact, so exciting, so new. It's even more exciting when Goddess actually responds. Congratulations, you've caught...
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Being Purposeful vs. Purposeless. (How To Be a Good sub.) D/s Relationships. (Basic Blog #16)
Being a sub is more than just a title. Being a true sub requires work. Being in a healthy D/s relationship takes even more work. Being a...
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Servitude, Conflict, And Being A Lonely sub.
Servitude is a way of life. It is a commited way of life. Not everyone is ready to commit at the same point in their life, however they...
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To Take... Or Not To Take... That is The Question. (Basic Blog #13)
LOL. Some of you think that just because you offer, that a Goddess should be jumping on whatever it is that you have to offer. Well let...
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Hollidommes, Birthday dommes, instadommes Explained. (Basic Blog #12)
It's the most wonderful time of the year... Or is it? This is the time of year where the "dormant" dommes come out of hibernation and...