How To Obtain Goddess's Attention And Keep It.

Ahhh initial contact, so exciting, so new. It's even more exciting when Goddess actually responds. Congratulations, you've caught Goddess's attention, but can you keep it? Yes, this weighs entirely on you. Goddess has many admirers, and recieves many messages daily. your hi's, hello's, and have a great day get old fast when you haven't actually done anything for Goddess. What makes your hi's, hello's and have a great day's any different from any of the other 100's of messages in My inbox? Nothing, absolutley nothing. Goddess interacts with subs for the purpose of finding a sub who will serve. you know, finding an acutal connection and building on it. Greeting Goddess with daily pleasantries isn't serving Her, if anything it's for you own ego. So sure, maybe Goddess with respond to your greetings intially, but at some point they are going to get old.

Acknowledging your greeting is Goddess's way of opening the door to you. I am giving you the opportunity to introduce yourself and prove yourself useful. If you fail to do soon after initial contact, I will bore fast. Goddess can exchange pleasantries with anyone, why would She continue to do so with a broken record who isn't adding anything to Her life? Figure out your intentions fast or you will be left on read. What is a subs purpose? Can you tell Goddess? How about I put this in really simple terms for you. Serving a Goddess, is any activity or function that you fill to make your Goddess's life easier. Finding your purpose in servitude isn't always easy. you have to start with what you want and need out of a relationship, and then make sure that your wants and needs align with those of your Goddess's. So what kind of submissive does Goddess seek? One who feels their main purpose is to be of service to Goddess. I want a sub who knows that their purpose in life is to please Me, and they are willing to do whatever act of service I ask of them. (Within set boundaries and limits of course.) Goddess has a partner. So I am not seeking a sub for a romantic engagement, I never have. My subs purpose is to service Me, and yes, if a sub has an interest in cuckolding, also to service My partners wants and needs. So tell Goddess, how do your bare minumum greetings add to My life? Here's the answer, they don't. Greetings become a task to reply to, and I really don't have time to respond to every greeting in My inbox. If you have a chance to engage with Goddess don't screw it up.

So what are some proper ways to greet Goddess? This may seem very 101 for some of you, but it has become evident that most of you need this intro. How not to greet Goddess daily, "Hi Goddess! Have a great day!" How to greet Goddess daily. "Good morning Goddess, how may I be of service to You today." Can you spot the difference. This shouldn't be hard to point out but the second greeting is where you opened yourself up to being open to an act of service. you put yourself out there and made yourself open to be of use. (Like every good sub should. DUH.) A subs purpose is to serve, not to chit chat. So if you send Goddess this kind of message, it opens the conversation up to actually progress. Goddess can finally start to guide you and tell you what She wants from you. This is where you can start talking about how you can be of service to Goddess! Subs can have many uses. Let's list of some type that Goddess enjoys. Like I said I enjoy service submissives. Service submissives can branch out and have many uses. they can become domestics servants, personal assistants, chauffeurs, errand boys, play toys, and Personal handmaids. Honestly the hottest kind of submissive to Goddess is one that seeks only to serve. It's hot when you get excited and find joy in completing the most menial of tasks for Me. And yes, service submissive don't need sexual attention to find joy. (This is why I love chastity, it puts a sub in their place, and grants them true clarity.) Honestly, in My opinion there is no greater pleasure than the pleasure you receive from pleasing your Goddess and making Her happy. An orgasm can never compare to the head buzzing euphoria you feel while serving your Goddess.

Now let's breakdown even further the way I like to use My service subs.

-Personal ATMs

-Errand boys

-Personal assistant

-maid/pool sub

-Personal secretary

-Bag boy

-Play toy

-Bitch boy.

The list goes on and on. Yes, most of My service subs are finsubs to some degree or another. 100% pure finsubs are rare but a financial kink is something that still interests many subs, mainly for the fact that money is power. subs crave to lose control to Goddess, and well, money talks. I enjoy incorporating financial domination into many of My D/s relationships but not all relationships are financial domination heavy. subs have many purposes, and not all subs are capable of being as big of ATM's as others. (And I have some very large ATM's... So hot.) However, there are still many uses for a sub outside of that. So, if you aren't giving up some degree of financial control are you really devoting yourself to your Goddess? I'll leave that for you to decide. But yes, I expect My subs to spoil Me along with worshipping Me. I have been in the lifestyle for almost 9 years now. I have developed more expensive tastes and for the finer things in life, I grew up very well off to begin with, I never had a want for anything. (I had a head start.) But to this day I crave to build My empire higher and higher with the assistance of My loyal and devoted subs, and sorry, not sorry, your constant greetings are contributing to My wealth and development and a Human. I crave to be richer and more powerful, it's what really turns Me on.... Building My empire.... And My subs willigingly and eagerly help get Me there.

So what do I expect from My subs? I expect My subs to crave to make My life better, easier and of course richer in more ways than one. My subs live to make Me richer in every aspect, spiritually, materialistically, financially, and in My Domme life. I crave it all. And I expect My subs to provide it all. So if you want to be a part of this Goddess's life, I expect you to put work in, as I put work into My subs. I don't live to destroy subs. I live to make My subs better submissives and humans. I want us to grow together, even if that means your bank balance becomes smaller. A dwindling bank account while adding to Goddess's is something that should excite you and please you. your Goddess would never leave you in a position where you could not take care of yourself or pay for basic necessities. My subs live comfortably and in bliss due to the fact that they are living to serve Me. There is a fine line between fantasy and reality and I feel like some subs get lost in it. (It's important to have a Domme who knows where that line lies.)

Is servitude for everyone? No. And if it's not for you, then sorry, you won't have a place in My life. Being a Domme is who I am 24/7, 365. It isn't an act or a hustle. This isn't a roleplay for Me. I need submissives in My life to remain happy. And yes, the right subs do exist, but just like how every vanilla relationship doesn't work out, D/s relationships are no different. Inorganic relationships just won't survive. Relationships where you have different goals and life plans are destined to fail. So make sure that you do no embark on a life journey with a Domme that you do not share a common life goal with. Be honest with Her from the start. It's that simple. There are a million Dommes out there, there's a good chance I'm not the Domme for you, and that's fine, I hope you find the Domme that makes all of your submissive dreams come true. However, if I am your dream Domme, don't be an idiot and don't screw this up.

My blogs lay out My expectations and who I am. I don't hide anything in what I seek .However, if you do have questions that haven't been answered in My blog or otherwise, in your initial greetings is where you should ask them. I am not an initial tribute Domme. I find initial tributes to gain My attention tacky, (Also transactional, which I don't think is an authentic part of the lifestyle. Girl you are just trying to make some quick cash. Sorry not sorry.) Goddess can't put a price on the right connection. This is why I always engage with those who approach respectfully. Initial conversation can tell you a lot, you can make a connection, find a spark, and also, duh, straight up communicate. Maybe My blogs left you with questions for Me, now is the time to ask them. I will never turn down an engaging conversation. Initial conversation is where connections are made. And if you choose to tribute after the fact, you are more than welcome to... Because isn't that what tribute is? An act of appreciation, worship or gratitude? This is when you can tribute, when you have interacted and can really appreciate Goddess for all that I am.

So, if you still haven't caught on let Goddess ask you this. How do constant greetings, and greetings alone help your relationship progress? What does Goddess get from a constant greetings other than bored? Does your "hello," tell me anything about you? Does it tell Goddess what you're looking for or what you are seeking? Does a generic greeting build connection? Of course not. Pleasantries are great for passers by, not for someone who's looking to build a connection and a life with a Goddess. Like I said earlier, I get 100's of messages from subs, so if I see a generic greeting repeatedly, I will grow bored of it. Goddess doesn't have time to pry and ask more about you. A sub should be an open book, if you approach a Goddess you should have clear intentions. If you want to truly serve a Goddess make it known! Tell Goddess how you want to be a part of Her life, tell Me what you have to offer, tell Me what you seek, tell Me your fears. Tell Me everything. Give Goddess building blocks. I will not search for them on My own. I don't have time. Goddess isn't a mind reader, so the most important thing is to make your intentions known. Yes, I see you lurking on My page. But do I care? No. Why don't I care? Because how does your lurking benefit Me? It doesn't. you lurk for you. Also if you think lurking is a way to get My attention it's not. I have tons of lurkers on this site. If you want My attention make an effort. Because I won't. I have better things to do with My time. It's that simple.

Goddess deserves the best. And the best, as far as subs go, are subs who are respectful, eager and willing to make an effort. I have no interest in pulling teeth just to engage with a random sub. If I did that with every sub, I would have no time left in My day. So use your head. If you want to engage and be a part of My life show it. I don't care if you served Me in the past and are coming back with your tail between your legs, or if you are new. Make an effort. What's the worst that can happen? Yes, I can reject you. But what does aimlessly wandering My site solve? you are empty without Me, otherwise you wouldn't be here at all. Me? I am thriving, I am happy and I am living My best life with those who choose to serve Me, if you want to add to My life and be a part of it, make an effort, because I won't. I have no interest in chasing subs or begging them to serve Me. I have plenty. I value My time, and I am above pandering for your attention. I am authentic. (And rich. lol I don't need you to be My white knight and pay My bills.) Everything you need to know about Goddess is on My page. Take your time, do your research and move forward properly. At the end of the day, getting My attention is up to you. you have the guidelines now, so either you follow them, or you don't. If you are ignored by Goddess now you know why. Mutual kinks and goals are hot. Good luck. :)