Findom Is NOT A Weapon.
Findom is where a sub WILLINGLY tributes a Dominant that they admire. Findom is CONSENSUAL, and something that BOTH parties find...
"paypigs," "losers," and Practicing Safe Findom.
Nothing turns Me off more than sub accounts claiming that they're a "loser" or "paypig," especially when they ask a Domme to make them...
Findom Done Wrong. If this sounds like you. Smarten up or LEAVE.
I've been biting My tongue long enough and of this all needs to be said. I've seen the scene change a lot over the last few years due to...
Tragidommes, begging, and the white knight "subs" Ruining the Community.
Send GC's so I can eat tonight and not starve... Said no Domme EVER. When a Domme needs to rely on a sub for survival they officially no...
How "Societal Norms" and Kink Shaming Lead To Doubt.
What is normal? Who decides what is normal? And why do humans feel like they need to check the box of "normal" in order to fit in. I...
Toxic subs, When Should You Cut The Cord? Part 1.
Any experienced Domme has gone through this dilemma. Sometimes one of Your subs who You deeply care for becomes an "issue." I don't take...
When subs Fail To Meet Expectations And The Resulting Gradual Domme Withdrawal.
A Goddess/Domme will seek good subs to serve, and a sub will seek to serve a Goddess. A sub and Domme need each other to fulfill a void...
Findom for Dummies.
The things you see on the internet will never stop surprising you. People get all kinds of ideas in their head and post them without a...
Initiating Contact.
This is something that SHOULDN'T have to be said, but since many of you seem to be confused I figured I would lay out the basics and...
What is Dominance? And What Makes a Domme?
Seems like Dommes are everywhere now doesn't it. Everywhere you look someone is claiming to be a Domme. Dommes even pop up in mainstream...