Tragidommes, begging, and the white knight "subs" Ruining the Community.
Send GC's so I can eat tonight and not starve...
Said no Domme EVER. When a Domme needs to rely on a sub for survival they officially no longer have control. A Domme should NEVER get to that point. If a Domme can't support themself through the lifestyle they should get a JOB. There is nothing luxurious, Dominant or alluring about a Woman that can't even support herself. If you need to beg to eat, pay for gas, rent, bills ect. You really need to reevaluate your life. Get a job AND don't quit that job until you can sustain yourself living the lifestyle. There is nothing hotter than a Woman that can support herself. Period. It doesn't matter if it's through findom, femdom, retail, waitressing, even working at McDonalds, ect. Faking it till you make it rarely works. Don't be stupid, don't end up with an eviction notice and no food in your fridge, don't end up stranded with no money to get home or pay for shelter, and don't be one of the "dommes" diluting the scene by begging day in and day out. Any "tribute" resulting from begging likely won't be from subs coming to your aid, they will be from men who can wield power over you. Without them you have nothing. Don't be that "Domme," it's supposed to be the other way around. Stop aiding those who top from the bottom. I'm sick of seeing this stuff every day. This isn't Findom. This isn't our community. If you're a vulnerable sub don't support beggars or fall into the trap. Sometimes even "Tragidommes" aren't sincere, they can be manipulative and will use you without actually caring about you. They will poach, lie, and even BM you to keep a hold of your wallet. Ultimately you are their lifeline. It's nice to feel needed, but when you are "needed" for the wrong reasons it can be a very dangerous game. RACK and SSC? Out the window. All you are is a walking dollar sign and they will do ANYTHING to keep you. Let's cut this toxicity from our community. Enough is enough. At the end of the day there are asshole "subs" and "dommes." Stop fueling the sickness that has plagued our community. When you see the flags, run from them. A Superior Goddess will not be constantly be begging for handouts.
A Domme should never be asking for a "reimbursement" when she never even had the money in her account to be reimbursed for. (For those confused reimbursements are supposed to happen AFTER you pay for something. Which means you would need to have the money in your account in the first place. ;) ) A sub should never be a Dommes white knight. Female supremacy is a beautiful thing, but let's not forget what that means. Unpopular opinion... There are inferior women. There are HORRIBLE women. There are shitty men AND women. Superior is more than a WORD. DO NOT let the delusion that all Women are superior brainwash you from reality. Rant over.