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Blah, Blah, Blah, I Don’t Care. Shut up. (Basic Blog #31)
Originally Published December 24th, 2021 on IcyQueenO.com. IcyQueenO.com is Goddess's new home. This site will not be updated as...
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No, Goddess Will Not “Ruin” you. (Basic Blog #27)
Ugh. Nothing more irritating, not to mention more of a turn off than a random ass sub who slides into My inbox with one of the most basic...
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Findom 101 (Part 1: Reimbursements.)
Since My Findom For Dummies blog is such a big hit, I thought why not start a Findom 101 blog series. Before you newbies get too excited...
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you Must Pay $___ To Speak With Goddess. (Basic Blog #25)
Welcome to another one of Goddess's basic blogs. Today I am going to talking about "Initial Tribute." But not just any kind of initial...
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Fun with Contracts (Basic Blog #24)
The elusive contract, the thing that can crank a D/s relationship up another level or 5. Contracts can be a fun tool too to start your...
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When Goddess's Tolerance Runs Out. Failing as a sub. (Basic Blog #23.)
Goddess can be very tolerant when training subs, but it comes to a point where that tolerance wears out. There are always bumps in the...
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Getting What I Want Is So Hot. (Basic Blog #17)
The title says it all. Getting what I want is so hot, and Goddess gets what She wants, all day every day. Does this mean I am always...
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Being Purposeful vs. Purposeless. (How To Be a Good sub.) D/s Relationships. (Basic Blog #16)
Being a sub is more than just a title. Being a true sub requires work. Being in a healthy D/s relationship takes even more work. Being a...
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Being a Queen vs Claiming that you're a queen. (Basic Blog #15)
It's been a while since I wrote a blog that caused "controversy," so why not write one today? The online scene has become dilluted, I've...
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Becoming My property.
It's every subs dream to be owned, but that dream will never become a reality if you don't work for it. Successful Dommes are bombarded...