Being The Best Goddess. A General Response To My DM’S. (Basic Blog #21)

Originally Published April 14th @ IcyQueenO.com

Being the best, For Goddess, it comes naturally. I am a Goddess, I am the best Goddess. I get what I want when I want it, because it’s what My perfection demands, it’s what Goddess deserves. I am a Goddess. I have many subs, useful subs, good subs. sub with whom I have built lasting meaningful relationships with… Relationships that cannot be emulated. I am Me, IcyQueenO, Queen Liv, Goddess Liv, Me. Authentic and real. Many will try to imitate Goddess, but at the end of the day, they will never come close to the type of Goddess that I am. Authentic. Real. Amazing.

subs approach Me, because they are drawn to Me. Drawn to the powerful Female energy that radiates from Me. My confidence, My Goddess like aura. The aura that draws submissive males in. Like a magnetic pull, you find yourself getting closer and close to Goddess. Now you’re on the doorstep of change, walking through the door will change your life forever. Open the door, welcome to your new life… Serving perfection. As a Goddess I am NOT here to serve. I am here to be worshipped. I am NOT here to guide new “dommes.” Sure, My blogs can be considered educational, but I have no interest in coaching 1 on 1. (For the time being. I am focused on Me and only Me.) Well mostly, because it takes time out of My day. And #2, no two D/s relationships are alike. I don’t know you, I don’t know your sub. And how does helping you benefit Me? your sub isn’t paying Me, so why should I coach you to coach your sub? At the end of the day, you become the middle man, and all the things I “teach” your sub could get from Me in the first place. “How do I get a sub to pay Me.” Not My problem. “How do I get a sub to like Me.” Not my problem. Those are all “you” problems. The same applies to the subs who approach Me asking how to serve their goddess better. That’s not My problem. If you are a sub, and you have a goddess, your goddess should be training you how to be a better sub. your goddess should be teaching you, how to serve them. I don’t know your domme, I don’t want to know your domme. If your domme isn’t teaching you how to become a better person and sub, well then you better find another domme. Or just serve Me instead. :) Do NOT ask a more experienced Domme how to serve better, unless you are paying or serving Her in some way. Yes, I have blogs available online, and yes they are free and educational, however I write these blogs mostly for Me. Goddess’s blogs are a way I reflect on experiences, release emotions, and yes, they even help Me grow. My blogs are here to document My growth as a Domme, and yes, also for others to use as a guide. But that’s where it ends. If you contact Me, and we have never spoken before, and don’t have any intention of serving Me or benefitting My life in some way, I have no interest in responding. Messaging someone purely for you own self benefit is something that I am not interested in giving the time of day. I am here for Me. So before you send Me a messaging about your sub and how you need them to pay you, and want to know how to make that happen…. Just don’t. So how did I become the best Goddess? By finding a willing mentor, educating Myself, staying true to Myself and always putting Myself first. I know what I want, and I know how to get it. I teach My subs how to become better subs and people. We grow together, and enjoy our time together. My subs can ask Me anything as long as its respectful. I ensure that My subs communicate, communication is the most important thing in our relationship. Without communication a relationship will die. I make sure to make time for every one of My subs to ensure that our relationship continues to thrive. I know that I am amazing, I know what I deserve, and I also know what My subs deserve. Servitude is a gift. Just because you call yourself a goddess, well it doesn’t mean that any random sub has to serve you just because you say so. subs serve Me for a reason. My Goddess energy radiates from within Me. I am smart, sane sexy, educated, and cruel. Every subs dream. (I’m sure some dommes dream as well. ;)) Yes, I love interacting with My community, however, I have no interest in investing all My time into someone else, when there is no upside for Myself. (If I did that would make Me a sub.) Goddess always comes first. Remember that.