I Am A Lifestyle Domme. What Does That Mean? (Basic Blog #3)

Online you've probably seen a lot of Dommes. Pro-Dommes, Lifestyle Dommes, FinDommes, FinDumbs, ect. Okay the last one isn't a real title but they do exist. There are so many types of Dommes in the scene nowadays now what is the difference? What happened to good old fashioned Dominatrixes? Well, this blog will clarify. :)

So Lifestyle Domme Vs. Pro-Domme. What is the difference? Both are Dommes, yet Pro-Dommes considering being a Domme their job. It's something they go into work to do. Often Pro-Dommes will work in Dungeons and see clients. They start their days with a goal. Being a Pro-Domme is usually considered their main source of income. Pro-Dommes do sessions in exchange for cash.

Lifestyle Domme. AKA Me. Queen Liv. To Me being a Domme isn't a profession, it's not a job. Sure it funds parts of My Lifestyle but I mean I'm entitled to it, just for being Me. I'm a Domme 24/7, 365. I don't consider playing with My subs a job, I don't like to label interactions as "sessions." My communication with subs extends past sessions, it's a way of life. I live a lifestyle based on Female Supremacy, the way it should be. My subs are important parts of My life, without them something would be missing. My subs worship Me 24/7. I am always on thier minds. I don't do random sessions, I won't just play with a sub because they pay Me. Again if you haven't connected the dots, that's paying for a service. Pro-Dommes are open to sessions. Lifestyle Dommes like Myself are NOT. I play with MY subs when I am in the mood, when it feels good for Me, I don't play with subs because they are horny, or because they want My attention. I don't cater to subs. I have relationships with each and everyone of My subs. Just like a vanilla relationship, I don't do things when I don't feel in the mood. My partner or in this case submissive, can't pay Me to "perform" or put on an act. It's not rocket science. So if you're a sub looking for a Domme who plays when you want to play, then I am not the Domme for you. If you want a Domme who will play when you feel like it, (especially if you don't want to put in the work that goes into a relationship) you are going to have to pay a premium for a Pro-Domme. If random sessions are your thing, then you are looking for a Pro-Domme. DISCLAIMER: I am not saying that all Pro-Dommes can't be Lifestyle Dommes as well, sure they can do both and treat it like a job as well, but I am specifically talking about Myself. This is what's important here. Once again, I AM A LIFESTYLE DOMME.

I enjoy building relationships with subs, I enjoy shaping, molding and training them to become My perfect pet. I enjoy submissives who live, worship and work for Me and only Me. There is nothing hotter than a devoted pet. Nothing makes Me want to play with a sub, more than one who shows that Goddess is their reason for everything. Goddess is not a toy. Goddess doesn't solely exist for your pleasure and only you alone. Goddess is not a transaction. Goddess will not be treated as a transaction. Goddess is not disposable, but you know this, that's why you keep coming back time and time again. Goddess is everything. Goddess is your purpose. Goddess will not be treated as a pleasure giver, that's not My job it's yours. By providing pleasure to Goddess the submissive should be put in a euphoric state, pleasing Goddess is the ultimate reward. Serving Goddess is not about achieving orgasm, if those are your thoughts look elsewhere. Serving Goddess is about REAL pleasure, real fulfillment, mental, physical, total, ecstasy. The buzz from being called My good boy, can't be replicated by anything else. Serving Goddess provides a euphoric and amazing feeling that lasts way longer than some pathetic 8 second orgasm, a feeling you can't find anywhere else, other than serving faithfully at your Goddess's feet. Without Goddess you feel unfulfilled, you won't be nearly as happy. Many idiots will look elsewhere and then realize that Goddess is the only one for them. Goddess is irreplaceable. Serving Goddess is so hot.

I don't want this blog to be a novel, because this really isn't as complicated as some of you idiots make it seem.(Not to mention this was meant to be a "Basic Blog.") One more time for those in the back, I am a LIFESTYLE DOMME, I create genuine lasting connections with MY subs, I'm not saying I don't play with random subs from time to time, but if I do it's because I am in the mood and that I want to play. I cannot be turned on like a light switch. I live a lifestyle of Female Supremacy, in day to day life My subs are an important piece of it. My subs are not paychecks, My subs are an important part of My life and without D/s in My life it would not feel complete. (And I bet yours doesn't either.) Got it? Good. Now stop wasting time, start listening, start doing, start serving.